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The Healing Power of Music

by Alfred Lam on December 15, 2009 · 0 comments

Last night I performed at the Christmas Volunteer Appreciation Dinner of the Canadian Mental Health Association (York Region Branch).  What a wonderful group of people!  Many of the volunteers themselves have been diagnosed with a mental illness.  They have received support and help from this wonderful organization and as a way of giving back and contributing, they serve as volunteers to help others in need.  Many of these folks live in difficult financial circumstances, yet they demonstrate an incredible spirit of generosity.  They are a living testimony to me that life is not measured by how much you own, but by how much you are willing to give of yourself.

I performed a short set for about 15 minutes.  Towards the end I said that despite being a season of joy and celebration, for many of us Christmas is a difficult time.  I ended the set with the song “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas” as an encouragement and blessing to them.

The MC remarked about the healing power of music as she brought the evening to a close.  Afterwards an older gentleman came up to talk with me.  We talked about the realities of living with depression.  I told him hwo music has always given me that safe place of retreat even during my darkest days.  He then told me that he had decided to learn to play the guitar!  Horray for another guitar convert!! :-)   Another gentleman told me that he started playing with the idea of joining his church choir.  I witness again that not only does music has a power to heal, but it also has a way of breaking down barriers and bringing people together.

As I walked out the door, a lady shook my hand and simply said, “Keep singing!”  I was reminded once again, that my “calling” in life is to be a messenger, using words and music to bring encouragement and hope.  The goal is simple: Everyday striving to be a better person than I was yesterday, and hopefully inspiring others to do the same.

For all my musician friends: Keep singing, keep playing, don’t ever stop.  Someone is listening.  Just as you think no one is bothering to listen, someone comes along to remind you: “Keep Singing!”

This friday I am going to try my hand at “Street Singing” :-)   I am volunteering to watch the Salvation Army Kettle at Hillcrest Mall (Yonge and 16th) from 2-4pm and I figured I’d bring my guitar along and just sing to the people passing by in the mall.  It should be fun :-)

So…look after yourselves during this season, and have yourself a merry little Christmas :-)

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“Sacred…without being religious”

by Alfred Lam on November 11, 2009 · 0 comments

Starry Night

Two nights ago I had the honor of attending my first Speakers Bureau meeting with the AIDS Committee of York Region.   I was there simply as a volunteer to use my experience and training in public speaking to help them share their stories and messages more effectively when they reach out to the community.  It was a small group of folks who are either infected or affected by HIV/AIDS.  They came to the disease, or I should say, the disease came to them in many different ways.  But they have one thing in common: They share a common courage in being willing to open up their lives and use their stories to educate, to tear down stigma, to build bridges, and to inspire others.

It was our first meeting together, and I took some time offering some basic ideas on public speaking and offered to go back to work with them more to turn their stories into messages to benefit their audiences.   But as I listened to them sharing their stories, it struck me that the language of the evening has a strong…biblical tone to it.  They speak of restoration of dignity, reaching the outcast, building bridges, etc.  One person said, “I think I was given this disease so that my life can be used for a purpose of helping others find hope.”

After hearing their sharing, I offered some final remarks and I caught myself coining an interesting phase.  I said to them: “Each time you get up and open your heart and share your stories, I hope you realize  it is a moment that is….sacred…without being religious”

Driving home afterwards, I was impressed once again that since joining the world of social services, how many times I have heard God’s voice speak, seen God’s hand work, and felt God’s spirit moves, all outside the four walls of the church.  My thoughts was drawn to Van Gogh’s famous painting, “Starry Night” (above), where he used yellow light to represent God’s presence, and he made it a point to show that the yellow light was everywhere, except in the church building in the painting.

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Wanted: A Miracle

October 18, 2009

Last week was an exhausting week for everyone at the office.  After the Town Council handed down their decision to discontinue our funding by the end of this year, the office went into overdrive to try any means possible to get the decision reversed.  Everyone knew that we were facing a steep climb and long odds.  [...]

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“I’ll do it for nothing…”

October 15, 2009

Today was a big day at our agency.  We have to make a very important funding decision to try and get our core funding extended.  If we lose this funding, it will put our agency in serious financial troubles.
In many ways, I had worked hard for months to prepare for this presentation.  We have worked [...]

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Lessons Learned at the kettle

December 11, 2008

“…But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a fraction of a penny” –Mark 12:42
A couple of days ago I volunteered at a Salvation Army Kettle – the kind you see at shopping malls and other public places at this time of year. Basically the Salvation Army puts [...]

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Small Signs of Encouragement

October 31, 2008

Today I was scheduled to give a speech at another non-profit community service agency. This agency has a program geared to youths with troubled pasts and aims to give them a fresh start in finding a career, and I was supposed to give a “movivational speech”. All morning I was debating whether to go or [...]

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What a COOL workshop!

October 1, 2008

Today I went to a very cool workshop on social enterprises, which are revenue generating activities undertaken by non-profit organizations to fund their mission. The workshop took place in the Centre for Social Innovation, which is a large modernized loft-type office space that is dedicated to the mission: “To spark and support new ideas that [...]

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A visit to an orphanage

September 18, 2008

Our agency was told that we need to move out of our current location by the end of the year, so lately part of my responsibilities included scouting out possible new office space. Today I was visiting a possible location in a most unusual building: the historic Loyal True Blue and Orange Home in Richmond [...]

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