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Friends and Family…

by Alfred Lam on September 28, 2009 · 3 comments

Half Marathon Finish

Whew!  What a busy, busy weekend it was!  On Thursday night, I performed with a couple of good friends at a Starbucks in a fundrasing event for Canadian Free the Children.  On Friday, we performed again at a Canadian Red Cross youth event, trying to encourage the youth to make a difference with their lives. 

Then, to top it all off, Sunday morning my sister and I went downtown bright and early (and I do mean EARLY) to run the Scotiabank Toronto Half Marathon!  It was her first road race in 7 years, and it was my first marathon-distance race in a long, long time.   We had a great time running together and despite being runners and racing for many years, for the first time brother and sister crossed the finish line in a race together (in 2 hours, 22 minutes and 18 seconds!), basking in the upbeat music and loud cheers from supporters who came out to encourage the 20,000+ runners who took part in the event.

After the race, Anna cooked me a fantastic dinner in the evening to refuel my exhausted body.  After everyone had gone to bed,  I sat back with a beer, put up my feet and quietly reflected on the crazy weekend.  I was thankful for the opportunites to perform for a good cause and I enjoyed every step of the marathon experience.  But what I treasured most from the weekend was the fact that I was surrounded by friends and family…

Running a long distance race always put me in a reflective mood.  As I was sitting there, being thankful for those who had remained faithful as friends, I couldn’t help but think of that wonderful saying in Chinese:  路遙知馬力﹐日久見人心 (Distance will reveal the endurance of a horse, time will show the heart of a man)  It seemed especially fitting after I just finished a half-marathon. 

What can I say?  I am a blessed man.

Click here for a video from the Starbucks event

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In a split second, anything can happen…

by Alfred Lam on August 26, 2009 · 2 comments

Today started out just like any other day. Got up, drove Anna to work, dropped Taylor off at school, went to the office.

Travelled to another meeting that ended early. Had 15 minutes to spare before I had to pick up Taylor from school. Decided to stop by Chapters to browse. Found out my favorite photography author had just came out with the newest volume of his book series. Cool. Bought it.

Picked up Taylor, as usual. Buckle her in the car, as usual. Gave her her after school snack, as usual.

We started talking as I drove to pick up Anna. About 10 minutes into the ride, I suddenly heard her cough, and then stopped talking.

I turned, her mouth was opened. She was staring at me, desperatelly trying to tell me something. But no words came out. I instinctly knew what was happening…my daughter was choking…

I slammed on the brakes, stopped the car in the middle of a busy street at the height of rush hour, jumped out of my seat and rushed to her aid. Thankfully, she managed to gag and spit out the food and breathe again. She was crying. She was so scared. I held her…so tightly….”You are okay, sweetheart….you are okay….”

I would live 1000 years and never forget that look in my daughter’s eyes: Filled will fear, desperately reaching for me, wanting to say, “Daddy! HELP ME!!!” but not being able to speak or breathe…

I had gone through tough times before, but I will gladly endure everything 100 times over rather than ever seeing that look on her face again…

I guess what I am trying say is simply this. In a split second, anything can happen.

Whatever you have been dreaming to do, the things that you have been meaning to say, the love that you have been wanting to give….

What are you waiting for?

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Another Step Forward

May 18, 2009

This past Sunday we enjoyed an interesting worship service at our church. Rather than the “typical” teaching/preaching time, we had what was called a “family worship time”: Each of us were given a piece of paper and crayons and we were encouraged to draw a picture in answer to certain questions about our experiences [...]

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Out of the mouths of babes…

March 11, 2009

With our little one quickly reaching grade 1 (where did the last 4 years go?), we are going through the discussion that every parent in the city has had one time or another: “May be we should move into a ‘better’ school zone.”
Now, we haven’t actually decided to move yet, but when we are both [...]

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A Chinese New Year photoshoot :-)

January 27, 2009

We were sitting at home on Chinese New Year’s Eve with nothing much to do in the afternoon when we remembered that Taylor was supposed to wear a traditional Chinese costume to school the next day! As we dug through her closet bringing out the different outfits, we decided to do an impromptu photoshoot at [...]

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The dance

December 3, 2008

“We played the flute, but you did not dance…” Matthew 11:17

This morning one of my staff member handed me an interesting document. It was the script from the speech that she gave at her daughter’s wedding. Knowing that I have a public speaking background, she wanted to share it with me and hear what I [...]

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A Quiet Longing after a busy weekend

December 1, 2008

I felt slightly weary driving to work today after a busy weekend. As I mentioned in my previous post, we were busy cleaning up and purging stuff on Saturday. On Sunday we did a little more cleaning up, had lunch with my parents, did some grocery shopping, and as usual, I went to play hockey [...]

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Thoughts from a day of purging…

November 30, 2008

“Of making many books there is no end, and much study wearies the body” (Ecc 12:12)
Today, in preparation for doing some renovations in the house, we spent the day doing some much needed “purging”. As part of that process, Anna and I went through our collection of books, some of them from our university days, [...]

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Another nice day!

October 12, 2008

Yesterday we went with a few good friends on a hiking trip to Belfountain to watch the Fall colours and take some pictures.  We had a great time!  I think we are most proud of Taylor:  When we got to the trail, the sign reads: “This trail is rated as challenging, please make sure you [...]

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Daddy’s Great Helper!

October 5, 2008

Today I had to host our booth at a community event called “Taste of the Hill”. It was a food fair type event where restaurants representing different ethnic groups have booths to showcase their food. We usually put a booth at these events so the community sees our name and learn about [...]

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