Church

Today, after reading the well written Facebook note by my friend Jonathan Chan,  it occured to me that much of the debate amongst Christians surrounding Halloween has to do with the broader, deeper issue of how we approach something that is integral to our popular culture: symbols.

Symbols are powerful.  They provoke deeply emotional, sometimes diametrical responses from us.  Take something seemingly as innocent as a corporate logo: During the last few weeks, in the wake of Steve Jobs’ passing, the Apple logo for some represented innovation, perseverance, technological and commercial brilliance while for others it represented everything that is wrong with corporate America: greed, jealousy and exploitation.  One only need to follow some of the discussions on FB about Steve Jobs’ to get a glimpse of the depth and breadth of the responses.

Symbols are powerful because they allow us to ascribe meanings to them.  It is not just what they represent or identify, but what they represent TO US  (Again, the Apple logo as case in point).  Traditionally in the church we have a tendency to ascribe meanings to symbols in a way that separates us from others:  For instance, when environmental concerns became a passion amongst some Christians, other evangelicals identify those who are “green” as representing not just a concern for the environment, but an entire “theologcal position” that is somewhat “liberal” and drew a line in the sand that says “we are not like that”.

Similiarly, in the past Halloween has been viewed in the church as a “symbol” that represented the occult, witchcraft, and all things associated with “the dark side”.   As well pointed out by Jonathan, while there may be historcal reasons for those interpretations, we must learn to ask two questions:  (1) Is that STILL the popular interpretation by our culture or are we woefully living in the past, and (2) Why don’t we asribe NEW meanings to the symbol, in a way that brings people together rather than dividing “us” and “them”?

I, for one, choose to celebrate Halloween as a festival of creativity, community, and diversity.  I work in an immigrant service centre and today we have children at the centre from all different nationalities dressing up in their costumes.  They all speak with different accents, everyday at lunch the different aromas of their lunches delightfully fill our centre, but today, they are ALL united by the three familiar words: “Trick or Treat!!” as they celebrated, most of them for the first time, this new custom in their new home.  Rather than some medieval roots or links to the occult that most don’t think about anymore, today Halloween became a symbol that says, “Together, we are becoming a part of a new culture that is Canadian.”

Speaking of interpreting symbols in a way that brings us together, can’t we say the same about the cross?  In the church, so often we instinctively look at the cross as a symbol that separates people:  “Christians” vs “Non-Christians”, “Saved” vs “Unsaved”, “Heaven bound” vs “Hell bound”, and so on.  But wasn’t it at the cross that the curtain in the temple was torn in half, thus “symbolizing” an end to separation?  While we ponder about Halloween today, can we perhaps at the same time re-examine the meanings we ascribe to the symbol of the cross, and learn new ways to interpret it so that it becomes a symbol that brings people together, rather than dividing them apart?

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He had dreams…

October 19, 2011

I was watching the news coverage on the tragic death of Jamie Hubley, the teen who committed suicide after battling depression and the bullying and abuse he received from being gay.  They interviewed his father, Allan Hubley.  The first words that came out of his mouth during the clip was “He had dreams…and we had dreams for him…”

He had dreams.

Had.

But now they are no more.  Snuffed out, trampled on, buried.

The news said he took his own life.  The truth is that his life and his dreams, were taken from him.  Not by disease.  Not by accident.  But by hate.

Hate did this.

Jamie Hubley had the incredible courage to be open with is sexuality and tried to help others like him by forming a club at school.  Hate took that courage and ridiculed it, abused it, and shredded it to bits, just like the people who destroyed his posters for the club at school.

Hate did this.  And  there is one thing I have learned about hate.  It is taught.  No one is born to hate.

In the wake of Jamie’s death, we in the Church cannot simply shrug our shoulders.  We need to look down at our hands.

Because there is blood on them.

I have been part of the church for most of my adult life.   No where else have I seen such ability to hide, deny and cover up hate.  Sometimes with spiritual and religious language.

Only in the church do we get away with such ludicrous language like: “we are to hate the ‘sin’ but not the ‘sinner’”

What happens when you can’t separate the two?  Have you ever tried saying THAT to a gay person?

Similarily, in the church we cover up and get away with racism, sexism, religious and moral elitism, and other forms of hate, all in the name of God.

In the past few days, I kept waiting for a strong statement from the “Christian circles” saying that as Christians, we cannot allow hate to go on.  We cannot allow the tragedy of Jamie Hubley to happen again, and we need to examine our attitudes towards homosexuality and other forms of hate.  There was, there still is an opportunity for the church to show leadership in this.  But not a word was spoken.

Shame on us.

With blood on our hands, on Sundays we continue to celebrate the Eucharist, remembering the blood that dripped from Jesus’ hands on the cross, teaching us to love, and not hate.

Shame, Shame on us.

Meanwhile, we watch the life and dreams of Jamie Hubley crushed by hate, buried at our feet, with our hands dripping from his blood.

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Journeying Forward…

September 20, 2011

It has been a quiet month following the concert.  We spent some time relaxing, took a week off to spend with Taylor to get her ready for the school year, and pretty soon life drifted back to “normal” with the busyness of work.  Last week Anna and I shared about our experience in doing the [...]

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Love Wins…Rob Bell’s new book

April 26, 2011

As part of my preparation of speaking at my church this coming Sunday, I have been reading Rob Bell’s new book “Love Wins”. Who would have thought that a book with such a warm and fuzzy title would generate the amount of controversy and heated (and sometimes hateful) debate among Christians, of all people? The [...]

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Easter…again

April 4, 2010

“…every time there are losses there are choices to be made. You choose to live your losses as passages to anger, blame, hatred, depression and resentment, or you choose to let these losses be passages to something new, something wider, and deeper. When we become aware that we do not have to escape our pains, [...]

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“I want to know You more…”

October 5, 2009

“I want to know you/I want to hear your voice/I want to know you more….” I am not sure why, but during the singing time in church today, this phase from a familiar song  jolted me. It was a song that I must have sung a 100 times before.   But for some reason this morning, [...]

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On Easter

April 10, 2009

This has been a special weekend for us. As part of the week-long surprise birthday celebration I planned for Anna, after I picked her up from work on Thursday evening, we drove 9 straight hours to spend the weekend in Chicago. Anna didn’t suspect a thing! I even managed to pack her bags for the [...]

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68 weeks

February 16, 2009

68. That’s how many weeks it has been since the last time I was “in church”. 68 Sundays ago, I went for what I thought may be the last time. I said what I had to say. I drove away, alone. The snow. It came early that year. It was snowing when I drove home. [...]

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The Ted Haggard Story

January 13, 2009

This week I read about the Ted Haggard story, how the one time megachurch planter/pastor and President of the National Association of Evangelicals was treated when it was revealed 2 years ago that he had engaged in inappropriate sexual conduct. Apparently he signed an agreement with his church to not speak about the situation for [...]

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A Quiet Longing after a busy weekend

December 1, 2008

I felt slightly weary driving to work today after a busy weekend. As I mentioned in my previous post, we were busy cleaning up and purging stuff on Saturday. On Sunday we did a little more cleaning up, had lunch with my parents, did some grocery shopping, and as usual, I went to play hockey [...]

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